Working
at Home Doesn't Have to Mean Feeling Alone
by: Vishal P. Rao
Operating
a home-based business may let you set your own schedule, spend more
time with your children, and earn more money but it does have its
own set of challenges. One of those challenges can be a feeling
of loneliness.
Many
home-based business workers spend all their time trapped within
the confines of their house. They eat in their own kitchen, type
email on their own computer, and socialize with their own family
once they return from the outside world. At first, this might seem
like a welcome change from the stressful interactions in the average
workplace, but when continued day after day, it can dramatically
affect your mood and your productivity.
Luckily,
you can combat those negative feelings and keep your home-based
business. Here are a few suggestions:
1)
Establish a Routine
Very
often the flexibility of working at home can deteriorate into disorder
and chaos, which usually leads to longer hours and less socialization.
A well-established routine allows you to get your work done and
have time to mingle. For example, you could set office hours from
8 am to 5 pm. Once you finish working each evening, you'll be free
to unwind and interact with people for the rest of the night without
the distraction of your business. Plus, you'll be forced to use
those time management skills which were so essential when you working
for someone else.
2)
Take a walk with a spouse, friend, or dog
If
you visit any workplace, you are bound to find people walking on
their lunch breaks. They don't just do this for the calorie-burning
benefits, however. It's also a good way to release stress and to
enjoy the company of other people. You can do the same thing, but
you may need to schedule your outings so they are convenient for
your “walking buddy.” Of course, if you opt to take
your favorite canine companion along, he or she will be available
whenever the need to wander strikes.
3)
Join a health club
Exercise
is an excellent stress reliever, plus it fights against two other
common work-at-home problems: over-indulgence in food and sedentary
lifestyles. But exercising on a stationary bike or treadmill in
your bedroom won't be enough to fight that feeling of isolation.
A health club, on the other hand, is a perfect answer because it
provides lots of exercise opportunities and a chance to meet new
people. Sure, club memberships can be pricey but your health and
well-being are worth it.
4)
Get a hobby
One
of the bad things about owning a home-based business is that you
probably turned your hobby into your livelihood which often takes
a lot of the fun out of it, so now you need a new hobby. The best
choice would be something that required you to get involved with
other people, such as team sports. However, most solitary activities
can also be used for socializing. For example, if you like to read,
you could join a weekly book club.
5)
Go to the movies
Chances
are those people you love who spend 8-10 hours a day in the outside
world probably want to rent a DVD, microwave some popcorn, and watch
a film in the comfort of their living rooms instead of venturing
out into the dark, crowded, and sticky-floored world of theaters.
You, however, should resist the urge. Watching a movie in public
with a group of people around is the ultimate socialization experience.
Even though you don't know everyone in the theater, you are connected
for those two hours (or however long the movie runs). Of course,
if you can take your spouse, your friends, your children, or even
your parents along, you definitely should. But if they'd rather
stay home and vegetate on the couch, you can always go alone.
6)
Buy a laptop computer
Owning
a home-based business doesn't mean you are never allowed to leave
your house. Of course, you don't want to miss out on valuable work,
but you also don't want to a prisoner in your home office. If you
buy a laptop, you can have the best of both worlds. You'll stay
connected to your work and you can actually go out into the world.
You can work while you sip coffee, relax at the park, or sit on
your front porch. All of which will give you a much-needed chance
to reconnect with the rest of the world.
7)
Get a part-time job
You
probably started your own home-based business to escape the rat
race so you might be hesitant about getting back out there. Even
ten hours a week is enough to keep you sane, but should not be enough
to drive you crazy. One freelance writer I know who works out of
her home also teaches a five hour weekly writing course to college
students in order to rejuvenate after hours of isolation. The class
lets her be social, do something she enjoys, and earn a reliable
stream of additional income. The effects of a part-time could be
equally beneficial for you.
As
you may have noticed, all of these ideas have one thing in common:
they force you to leave your home. The reason is that the only way
to feel like you're not isolated, is to not isolate yourself. Taking
a few minutes each day to talk to your working friends on the phone,
to stroll through nature, or to spend quality time with your family
is all it really takes to keep your productive and happy.